Though I have to say Tony Stark so often being coded as 'the girl' in Steve/Tony fanfic is even less comprehensible to me.
Aha! This one I can answer for you. It's because Tony is shorter. No, seriously. On the SPN anon meme, long before my time, there was an epic wank about how the shorter man must always bottom. This wank is now remembered fondly on the meme for sheer WTF value, and people frequently mention poor, sad Sam Winchester who never gets to bottom (unless Dean puts on heels, of course).
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EDIT: Aha, perhaps I overstated what Davis had said about Stiles' sexuality. Basically everything I know about TW, I've learned through osmosis, so.
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Aha! This one I can answer for you. It's because Tony is shorter. No, seriously. On the SPN anon meme, long before my time, there was an epic wank about how the shorter man must always bottom. This wank is now remembered fondly on the meme for sheer WTF value, and people frequently mention poor, sad Sam Winchester who never gets to bottom (unless Dean puts on heels, of course).
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EDIT: Aha, perhaps I overstated what Davis had said about Stiles' sexuality. Basically everything I know about TW, I've learned through osmosis, so.