I, too, want to know their feelings, but I'm not sure it's the only reason I prefer written porn. I will enjoy tentacle porn in a fandom I know nothing about if there are enough tentacles and enough of someone being really turned on by it. But I know I wouldn't enjoy that in visual form, and idk what that's about.

My thoughts on yaoi are mainly:

1) I still think "what are your thoughts on yaoi" is funny
2) More people used to call all slash yaoi and that's not the case any more, so with the exception of 1) I don't think about it much at all, except,
3) When Yuri on Ice was a big deal I kept thinking people were talking about yaoi not YOI