I'm not going to post responses to individual points, because a lot of people have already done that and I don't really feel like it right now. I'll just say that I do agree with some parts, and I disagree with others. But, those that I disagree with, I still understand where you're coming from.

And I really hate the term "bangel" too! I never say so because so many people will use it anyway. But if someone were to go, "So, you ship bangel?" I'd be most likely to answer, "Yeah, I ship B/A."