I would say that I wouldn't want anyone who honestly loves the books to be hurt by my hate, but I do honestly want those who love it to be aware of what they're reading. If they can accept that certain concepts are there and being virtually lauded and/or ignored by the author and still think it's soooooo romantic, then...ok. It's the fact that people don't seem to know they're looking at the most unhealthy relationship in the history of mankind, and instead think it's...this beautiful thing. NO NO NO. That stuff has been fucking women up since that stupid Forbidden Fruit shit.