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Things About B/A That Annoy Me
Hopefully after that post filled with hearts and love and flowers, everyone (who gives a damn) can tell I love B/A. Much thanks for all that lovely discussion, and reccing to bring other people into discuss. It was lots o' fun, and I think even some people who didn't love B/A could see that there are many wonderful excellent things about it, things that make our knees go squishy, things that make us think it's something that is real and true in both characters.
That said, there're things that just drives me personally crazy about it, and not in a good way.
1. I feel like neither DB nor the writers had a very good handle on Angel until "Angel", BtVS 1x07, and even then, he still seemed shakey to me until S3.
2. In "Teacher's Pet", 1x04, I dislike the "You're cold...I mean you look cold" dialogue. I love that he gives her his coat, but that's just clunky--bad--writing.
3. I don't like the line "When you kiss me, I want to die" in "Reptile Boy", 2x05. It makes for some very interesting things to play with in fic (see orgasm face during biting scene in "Graduation", 3x22 and gradual arc toward embracing death), but I don't get what Buffy means. And if I do get it, I don't understand why Buffy wants him and why Angel doesn't worry about it more.
4. I don't like the way DB says "Buffy." Ever. Someone once mentioned that it's difficult to inflect a goofy name like "Buffy" with the meaning he tries to give it, but I think JM does just fine. (However I love to death the way SMG says "Angel," especially in "Prophecy Girl," 1x12. Buffy never says anyone else's name like that again except when it's Angel--and she still says it the same way, even in S7.)
5. I've said this before, but I think the Claddagh rings in "Surprise", 2x13 are cheesy. I like them, but they're really, really cheesy.
6. I don't find the scene in "Surprise" just before they have sex very sexy (except for once, when my mom said--when Angel was looking at the cut on her back: "Oh come on, you know you want to lick it!"). I don't like the way SMG acts it. She does a good job, but something about it seems overly . . .melodramatic to me.
7. I dislike "I Only Have Eyes For You", 2x19. Part of it is my dislike of B/Aus, which I'll go into elsewhere. Part of it is I felt like it wanted to show us there's some bit of the soul somewhere inside Angelus, and there's really not (the scene with him scrubbing himself after his encounter does much to dispel that. I do love that scene, though not the least because DB has his shirt off.) Part of it is the plot is corny--the idea that the spell is "calling" Buffy and Angel. Part of it is I don't like DB's acting when he has to be possessed by a woman. There's a commentary in which Whedon says that bit was when he knew DB was talented enough to carry his own show, but I personally despise the way that scene is delivered.
8. The Tai Chi? Also cheesy. I love it, but very very cheesy.
9. I'm not the biggest fan of the magical snow in "Amends" 3x10 I feel like I get it. It's like everyone is realizing there are things bigger and more powerful and beautiful than themselves, just like they are confronted with bigger, more powerful and ugly things ever single day. Also, it's snowed all of three times in my life in Houston, and the last time was on Christmas Eve--I feel like I know how magical that can be.
But--maybe because I tend to have a one-track mind, a dog with a bone--it wouldn't be enough for me to feel like my issues with my boyfriend were resolved. It wouldn't be enough for me to understand that snow has suddenly curbed his instinct toward suicide. B/A had so, so many issues during S3, and they never talked about them. In other places, I like that; that's how they are--but in this scene where the bottling finally explodes and everything comes tumbling out, I'm very frustrated that so little actually gets said all because of the magical snow.
10. I dislike how S3 feels so on-again off-again. It seems to make sense when you're watching, but as much as I love B/A and as much as S3 might very well be my favorite season, I can't even keep track of when they're together and when they're not, and it's a little bit too much like watching a soap opera or kids in highschool for my taste.
11. In "Enemies" 3x17 (possibly one of my favorite eps ever) I dislike how they never did get to use chains. bahahaha.
12. I'm not the biggest fan of many elements of "I Will Remember You", AtS 1x08. I'm reposting part of a comment here to explain exactly the things I don't like about the ep:
I like how Jossverse so often asks "what if"--the Wish, IWRY, Birthday, Spin the Bottle, Tabula Rasa--all take us to alternate realities and it's like fanfic. But out of these, IWRY is the most flimsy. I hate the mechanism for plunging into this AU--the mohra demon is lame (looked lame--like something out of Power Rangers, what it does is lame, way to defeat it is lame; it's just lame). The mechanism for getting out of the AU--the Oracles--are also lame. They're deus ex machina of the worst kind, and they also look cheesy.
When I first saw "The Wish", I felt the same way about Anya--she was just a device to get us into another world. But the fact that the universe then explained vengeance demons, embraced them, showed us who they are and why they are and what they can do--made "The Wish" not just some funky joy ride but a story that seems to have meaning in the scheme of Whedon's universe.
IWRY, though, is conveniently swept under the rug. It's like ME's dirty secret--a way to cater to B/A fans and give them what they want without making any significant changes to anyone or anything. This day should've had reverbs. The mohra demons should've played a part later on. Instead it feels like a wart on the plane of AtS, something they had to do to make someone happy. I read that Whedon regrets doing IWRY so soon in AtS, and I agree 100%. It could've been such a big part of the overall arc of the series if it had happened later on. Instead it feels like left-overs from BtVS. (This is partly a problem with the series, not the episode. The exact same ep would've been great had they brought back elements from the show--the Mohra and the "together you are strong; alone you are dead"--later in the series.)
So, I don't like the plot or the device of the Mohra demon. I also don't like DB's acting in the sewers, when he and Buffy are discussing how they still can't be together. It makes me grit my teeth and want to scream. He doesn't sound like he loves her to me; he just sounds annoyed. Which is a shame, because he was phenomenal in the sewer scene in "Prom."
And I . . . don't like the "not enough time scene." It's SMG's acting. I love how that's the one scene where Buffy really breaks down in the entire 7 years. That's the one time she sobs. And objectively, I can see that SMG did a good job with it. Something about it just rubs me the wrong way.
Last, I don't like Angel saying, "Oh, I gotta go fight this guy myself." It doesn't ring true for me. I understand his decision in the end--he wants to earn his redemption, not have it fall in his lap. He sincerely believes his purpose is to help people, and it's Buffy who taught him that, and isn't it ironic and sad that he has to give up Buffy to do it. But the way these truths finally become clear to him seem lame to me. Angel does have a habit of wanting to rush into the fray and take care of things himself, but the whole Mohra demon thing was so lame anyway, this felt really contrived.
13. In "Chosen", BtVS 7x22, I dislike the talk in the graveyard after Buffy and Angel move out of the crypt (love Angel watching her in the crypt, and the basking, and the kissing. Just afterwards gets sticky.) Again, pasting from a comment elsewhere: Buffy is not Patrick Henry or anything. If she'd given an eloquent speech in that scene I'd like it a whole lot less than the cookie dough thing. But Buffy is repeatedly shown to be extremely witty and clever--and it seems to me there is a metaphor out there somewhere that's just as endearingly goofy but not so . . . banal.
The other thing I don't like about the scene is Angel doesn't act like someone who's just given his son away. I know Spike makes him act like a 12 year old, and I love that about the A/S dynamic, but this being the last B/A scene we were ever going to get, I felt kind of . . . let down.
14. Like many people, I dislike "The Girl In Question", AtS 5x20. Both Angel and Spike had allowed Buffy to move on. While it seems obvious they will never let go of her in their hearts, I thought the show twisted that sentiment in order to give Angel and Spike something to compete over and make fools of themselves for. And I love seeing Angel and Spike be dumbasses; they're not perfect; sometimes they're just utterly ridiculous. But the fact that the ep turned on their heads one of the most beautiful and mature decisions Angel had made, and a decision Spike had made that I thought really showed his growth, felt like bad writing and bad characterization to me.
The line "I signalled her with my eyes" also really, really grates me the wrong way. Angel hates that he put Buffy in a position that made her have to kill him, he hates what it did to her and he hates himself for causing it. I have trouble seeing him trivializing it in that way, no matter how far he'll go to beat Spike in a pissing match.
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Also, I love B/A fanfic. It's what brought me to the fandom, and there are a bunch of talented B/A authors and a bunch of great B/A fics. But there are also certain things that crop up in some B/A fanfic that's not to my taste. These are just my opinions, personal quibbles and dislikes I have. Actually, almost all of these things have appeared in excellent fics I've loved to death--in the end, it really just depends on how these elements are handled. Disclaimer over, now onto the dirt. ;o)
1. I don't like "I Will Remember You" babies, i.e., Buffy is preganant and she doesn't know how she got that way (and she knows it can't be Riley because after all, he raped her on a Tuesday), so she has to go to LA to see Angel about it. Yeah, the problem with that? Is Angel didn't give everyone amnesia, or new memories, like he did for Connor. Angel got the day erased. It didn't happen. No pregnancy, no sex, no ice cream on the chest, nothing happened but those few minutes in Angel's office.
2. For that reason, having Buffy remember the swallowed day makes no sense. She seems to have a flashback to it in almost every B/A fic, and if there's not a flashback there's some kind of mention. Little nods to it can be meaningful and very well done, and some of my very favorite, most excellently written fics have them. But other times I feel like it's in the story just to be there, just because so many of us love that ep. But I don't, and it drives me a little nuts.
3. On that note, certain things used again and again annoy me. Among them: claddagh rings, the line "forever, that's the whole point", "you still my girl? Always", repetitions of "his girl". I love these moments and lines in canon. But they do not need to be in every B/A fic ever.
4. I don't like how submissive Buffy is in a lot of B/A fics. While they kind of filled out traditional gender roles in S2, Buffy was the one eager to lead on in the relationship, not Angel. Also, Buffy is a kickass hero leader, why does she always have to be on her back? Also, later seasons show Buffy most certainly is not sexually submissive, so why would she be to Angel?
5. I don't like how most B/A biting is handled. It's sexy in "Graduation" 3x22, and I'm sure it can be sexy in fic. But Angel hated biting Buffy, he hated loving it so much, he hated getting off on it--I have difficulty seeing him doing it again unless there is something super fucked up going on. And if Buffy liked getting bit, she's ashamed of it; she's ashamed of it the way she's ashamed of fucking Spike in S6. So unless Buffy is broken and damaged, I don't see her asking for it. Unless all these issues have been addressed and dealt with, in which case I could see B/A possibly coming to a place in which the biting is accepted and alright. But if an author doesn't deal with all that it just turns me right off.
6. I don't like Angel saying, "I love you" more than once. He hardly ever says that in either series, and he wouldn't, except to Connor (if Connor would let him). In fact, Angel just doesn't go off about his feelings, except in "Sense and Sensitivity", AtS 1x6, and neither does Buffy after "Becoming", BtVS 2x22. They don't have long talks about how much they love each other, and they don't yell and scream when they're angry (or rarely do).
7. I dislike the "soulmate" thing. I kind of have a kink for the "mate" thing, if it's done well, but this idea of "Angel is my soulmate; I'll always love him best" schtick annoys the crap out of me. Buffy can love other people just as much. And if she doesn't believe that, I feel like she's kind of deceptive in her relationship with Riley (I'd add "also S7 relationship with Spike" but there are so many things wrong with S7 it's difficult to say).
8. I dislike B/Aus, but that's another can o' worms.
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Okay, now that the unpleasantness is over, rec a fic with these elements you really really like. Or explain why you like the canon B/A bits I dislike and woo me into loving them too. Or rant about things you dislike about your own OTP here or here (it's never too late). Or love, love hard, on B/A, other pairings, Jossverse, fandom, kittens, soda pop, and your RL honey, be it your husband, your dog, or--if you're like me--that big bar of chocolate and B/A ep you plan on curling up with tomorrow.
ETA: I hate the term "Bangel". That's at the top of my list.
That said, there're things that just drives me personally crazy about it, and not in a good way.
1. I feel like neither DB nor the writers had a very good handle on Angel until "Angel", BtVS 1x07, and even then, he still seemed shakey to me until S3.
2. In "Teacher's Pet", 1x04, I dislike the "You're cold...I mean you look cold" dialogue. I love that he gives her his coat, but that's just clunky--bad--writing.
3. I don't like the line "When you kiss me, I want to die" in "Reptile Boy", 2x05. It makes for some very interesting things to play with in fic (see orgasm face during biting scene in "Graduation", 3x22 and gradual arc toward embracing death), but I don't get what Buffy means. And if I do get it, I don't understand why Buffy wants him and why Angel doesn't worry about it more.
4. I don't like the way DB says "Buffy." Ever. Someone once mentioned that it's difficult to inflect a goofy name like "Buffy" with the meaning he tries to give it, but I think JM does just fine. (However I love to death the way SMG says "Angel," especially in "Prophecy Girl," 1x12. Buffy never says anyone else's name like that again except when it's Angel--and she still says it the same way, even in S7.)
5. I've said this before, but I think the Claddagh rings in "Surprise", 2x13 are cheesy. I like them, but they're really, really cheesy.
6. I don't find the scene in "Surprise" just before they have sex very sexy (except for once, when my mom said--when Angel was looking at the cut on her back: "Oh come on, you know you want to lick it!"). I don't like the way SMG acts it. She does a good job, but something about it seems overly . . .melodramatic to me.
7. I dislike "I Only Have Eyes For You", 2x19. Part of it is my dislike of B/Aus, which I'll go into elsewhere. Part of it is I felt like it wanted to show us there's some bit of the soul somewhere inside Angelus, and there's really not (the scene with him scrubbing himself after his encounter does much to dispel that. I do love that scene, though not the least because DB has his shirt off.) Part of it is the plot is corny--the idea that the spell is "calling" Buffy and Angel. Part of it is I don't like DB's acting when he has to be possessed by a woman. There's a commentary in which Whedon says that bit was when he knew DB was talented enough to carry his own show, but I personally despise the way that scene is delivered.
8. The Tai Chi? Also cheesy. I love it, but very very cheesy.
9. I'm not the biggest fan of the magical snow in "Amends" 3x10 I feel like I get it. It's like everyone is realizing there are things bigger and more powerful and beautiful than themselves, just like they are confronted with bigger, more powerful and ugly things ever single day. Also, it's snowed all of three times in my life in Houston, and the last time was on Christmas Eve--I feel like I know how magical that can be.
But--maybe because I tend to have a one-track mind, a dog with a bone--it wouldn't be enough for me to feel like my issues with my boyfriend were resolved. It wouldn't be enough for me to understand that snow has suddenly curbed his instinct toward suicide. B/A had so, so many issues during S3, and they never talked about them. In other places, I like that; that's how they are--but in this scene where the bottling finally explodes and everything comes tumbling out, I'm very frustrated that so little actually gets said all because of the magical snow.
10. I dislike how S3 feels so on-again off-again. It seems to make sense when you're watching, but as much as I love B/A and as much as S3 might very well be my favorite season, I can't even keep track of when they're together and when they're not, and it's a little bit too much like watching a soap opera or kids in highschool for my taste.
11. In "Enemies" 3x17 (possibly one of my favorite eps ever) I dislike how they never did get to use chains. bahahaha.
12. I'm not the biggest fan of many elements of "I Will Remember You", AtS 1x08. I'm reposting part of a comment here to explain exactly the things I don't like about the ep:
I like how Jossverse so often asks "what if"--the Wish, IWRY, Birthday, Spin the Bottle, Tabula Rasa--all take us to alternate realities and it's like fanfic. But out of these, IWRY is the most flimsy. I hate the mechanism for plunging into this AU--the mohra demon is lame (looked lame--like something out of Power Rangers, what it does is lame, way to defeat it is lame; it's just lame). The mechanism for getting out of the AU--the Oracles--are also lame. They're deus ex machina of the worst kind, and they also look cheesy.
When I first saw "The Wish", I felt the same way about Anya--she was just a device to get us into another world. But the fact that the universe then explained vengeance demons, embraced them, showed us who they are and why they are and what they can do--made "The Wish" not just some funky joy ride but a story that seems to have meaning in the scheme of Whedon's universe.
IWRY, though, is conveniently swept under the rug. It's like ME's dirty secret--a way to cater to B/A fans and give them what they want without making any significant changes to anyone or anything. This day should've had reverbs. The mohra demons should've played a part later on. Instead it feels like a wart on the plane of AtS, something they had to do to make someone happy. I read that Whedon regrets doing IWRY so soon in AtS, and I agree 100%. It could've been such a big part of the overall arc of the series if it had happened later on. Instead it feels like left-overs from BtVS. (This is partly a problem with the series, not the episode. The exact same ep would've been great had they brought back elements from the show--the Mohra and the "together you are strong; alone you are dead"--later in the series.)
So, I don't like the plot or the device of the Mohra demon. I also don't like DB's acting in the sewers, when he and Buffy are discussing how they still can't be together. It makes me grit my teeth and want to scream. He doesn't sound like he loves her to me; he just sounds annoyed. Which is a shame, because he was phenomenal in the sewer scene in "Prom."
And I . . . don't like the "not enough time scene." It's SMG's acting. I love how that's the one scene where Buffy really breaks down in the entire 7 years. That's the one time she sobs. And objectively, I can see that SMG did a good job with it. Something about it just rubs me the wrong way.
Last, I don't like Angel saying, "Oh, I gotta go fight this guy myself." It doesn't ring true for me. I understand his decision in the end--he wants to earn his redemption, not have it fall in his lap. He sincerely believes his purpose is to help people, and it's Buffy who taught him that, and isn't it ironic and sad that he has to give up Buffy to do it. But the way these truths finally become clear to him seem lame to me. Angel does have a habit of wanting to rush into the fray and take care of things himself, but the whole Mohra demon thing was so lame anyway, this felt really contrived.
13. In "Chosen", BtVS 7x22, I dislike the talk in the graveyard after Buffy and Angel move out of the crypt (love Angel watching her in the crypt, and the basking, and the kissing. Just afterwards gets sticky.) Again, pasting from a comment elsewhere: Buffy is not Patrick Henry or anything. If she'd given an eloquent speech in that scene I'd like it a whole lot less than the cookie dough thing. But Buffy is repeatedly shown to be extremely witty and clever--and it seems to me there is a metaphor out there somewhere that's just as endearingly goofy but not so . . . banal.
The other thing I don't like about the scene is Angel doesn't act like someone who's just given his son away. I know Spike makes him act like a 12 year old, and I love that about the A/S dynamic, but this being the last B/A scene we were ever going to get, I felt kind of . . . let down.
14. Like many people, I dislike "The Girl In Question", AtS 5x20. Both Angel and Spike had allowed Buffy to move on. While it seems obvious they will never let go of her in their hearts, I thought the show twisted that sentiment in order to give Angel and Spike something to compete over and make fools of themselves for. And I love seeing Angel and Spike be dumbasses; they're not perfect; sometimes they're just utterly ridiculous. But the fact that the ep turned on their heads one of the most beautiful and mature decisions Angel had made, and a decision Spike had made that I thought really showed his growth, felt like bad writing and bad characterization to me.
The line "I signalled her with my eyes" also really, really grates me the wrong way. Angel hates that he put Buffy in a position that made her have to kill him, he hates what it did to her and he hates himself for causing it. I have trouble seeing him trivializing it in that way, no matter how far he'll go to beat Spike in a pissing match.
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Also, I love B/A fanfic. It's what brought me to the fandom, and there are a bunch of talented B/A authors and a bunch of great B/A fics. But there are also certain things that crop up in some B/A fanfic that's not to my taste. These are just my opinions, personal quibbles and dislikes I have. Actually, almost all of these things have appeared in excellent fics I've loved to death--in the end, it really just depends on how these elements are handled. Disclaimer over, now onto the dirt. ;o)
1. I don't like "I Will Remember You" babies, i.e., Buffy is preganant and she doesn't know how she got that way (and she knows it can't be Riley because after all, he raped her on a Tuesday), so she has to go to LA to see Angel about it. Yeah, the problem with that? Is Angel didn't give everyone amnesia, or new memories, like he did for Connor. Angel got the day erased. It didn't happen. No pregnancy, no sex, no ice cream on the chest, nothing happened but those few minutes in Angel's office.
2. For that reason, having Buffy remember the swallowed day makes no sense. She seems to have a flashback to it in almost every B/A fic, and if there's not a flashback there's some kind of mention. Little nods to it can be meaningful and very well done, and some of my very favorite, most excellently written fics have them. But other times I feel like it's in the story just to be there, just because so many of us love that ep. But I don't, and it drives me a little nuts.
3. On that note, certain things used again and again annoy me. Among them: claddagh rings, the line "forever, that's the whole point", "you still my girl? Always", repetitions of "his girl". I love these moments and lines in canon. But they do not need to be in every B/A fic ever.
4. I don't like how submissive Buffy is in a lot of B/A fics. While they kind of filled out traditional gender roles in S2, Buffy was the one eager to lead on in the relationship, not Angel. Also, Buffy is a kickass hero leader, why does she always have to be on her back? Also, later seasons show Buffy most certainly is not sexually submissive, so why would she be to Angel?
5. I don't like how most B/A biting is handled. It's sexy in "Graduation" 3x22, and I'm sure it can be sexy in fic. But Angel hated biting Buffy, he hated loving it so much, he hated getting off on it--I have difficulty seeing him doing it again unless there is something super fucked up going on. And if Buffy liked getting bit, she's ashamed of it; she's ashamed of it the way she's ashamed of fucking Spike in S6. So unless Buffy is broken and damaged, I don't see her asking for it. Unless all these issues have been addressed and dealt with, in which case I could see B/A possibly coming to a place in which the biting is accepted and alright. But if an author doesn't deal with all that it just turns me right off.
6. I don't like Angel saying, "I love you" more than once. He hardly ever says that in either series, and he wouldn't, except to Connor (if Connor would let him). In fact, Angel just doesn't go off about his feelings, except in "Sense and Sensitivity", AtS 1x6, and neither does Buffy after "Becoming", BtVS 2x22. They don't have long talks about how much they love each other, and they don't yell and scream when they're angry (or rarely do).
7. I dislike the "soulmate" thing. I kind of have a kink for the "mate" thing, if it's done well, but this idea of "Angel is my soulmate; I'll always love him best" schtick annoys the crap out of me. Buffy can love other people just as much. And if she doesn't believe that, I feel like she's kind of deceptive in her relationship with Riley (I'd add "also S7 relationship with Spike" but there are so many things wrong with S7 it's difficult to say).
8. I dislike B/Aus, but that's another can o' worms.
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Okay, now that the unpleasantness is over, rec a fic with these elements you really really like. Or explain why you like the canon B/A bits I dislike and woo me into loving them too. Or rant about things you dislike about your own OTP here or here (it's never too late). Or love, love hard, on B/A, other pairings, Jossverse, fandom, kittens, soda pop, and your RL honey, be it your husband, your dog, or--if you're like me--that big bar of chocolate and B/A ep you plan on curling up with tomorrow.
ETA: I hate the term "Bangel". That's at the top of my list.
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Yeah I tried to understand that one but I just couldn't make sense of it. There are so many interpretations to that I just gave up on what she meant.
4. I don't like the way DB says "Buffy."
I have to agree, it sounds a little cheezy...but there are one or two times when I could get behind it.
5. I've said this before, but I think the Claddagh rings in "Surprise", 2x13 are cheesy.
SO STUPID. The stupidest thing EVAH. So overused in fic it's insane. Le sigh. I'm Irish so I already know about all that crap, and I used to own one (until I lost it). And I still think it's completely STUPID. Hee!
6. I don't find the scene in "Surprise" just before they have sex very sexy
I love that scene, I think it's incredibly sexy in a sweet and tender kind of way. It's cute-sexy and I love the subtleness of it. I think the coloring and the physical interaction is just so sweet.
7. I dislike "I Only Have Eyes For You", 2x19.
I don't really have a problem with it. I like B/Aus if it's complicated and well done, though. I loved the kiss, I thought it was beautiful. Except for that whole string of spit when the pull apart - that's just a tad gross.
8. The Tai Chi? Also cheesy.
I think him doing it alone is cheesy but them together? HOTNESS.
10. I dislike how S3 feels so on-again off-again.
I dislike it too - Buffy is so indecisive and sending Angel mixed signals, getting close then pulling away. I just wish she would make up her freaking mind and bang him already!
11. In "Enemies" 3x17 (possibly one of my favorite eps ever) I dislike how they never did get to use chains. bahahaha.
I don't know about chains so much as scarves.
12. I'm not the biggest fan of many elements of "I Will Remember You"
I'll always love it. I first saw it when I was 11 with my grandma and by the end we were both sobbing, and she didn't even know what the hell was going on!
3. In "Chosen", BtVS 7x22, I dislike the talk in the graveyard after Buffy and Angel move out of the crypt
I love the reunited-ness of them. When I watched that ep for the first time, when it aired, I got such a squee in my chest that he came back and they kissed and she was basking! I think the cookie analogy, however, was just completely stupid and poor characterization on the writers' parts. I mean, I know her puns are cheesy but they don't have to be STUPID! And I don't like the whole Buffy-lying-in-Spike's arms thing. That's awful. It either says she's using Spike or she's using Angel, or she's trying to have her cake and eat it too. I just hate it. And the whole 'implied sex' thing is just freaking weird, considering he kinda tried to rape her. But anyway - that's a whole different thing.
14. Like many people, I dislike "The Girl In Question"
God, I hated that episode! It didn't bring any closure to anything - and the fact that Buffy wasn't actually IN the episode made it even shittier (and that will make me hold a grudge against Joss till the end of time). And I was PMSing while I was watching it so I felt even more blah. Yeah, that episode stands in my Hall of Fame for one of the suckiest, next to 'Waiting In The Wings'.
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1. I don't like "I Will Remember You" babies
Oh God, don't even get me started. That's like romance novel crap...and completely just a B/Aer fanwanking till Judgement Day. Seriously. And the fact that it's seriously repetitious makes it even worse.
2. For that reason, having Buffy remember the swallowed day makes no sense.
I'm not into the thing where she has a sudden dream or a vision of it, but I could see her remembering it after Heaven, but feeling apathetic towards it - as though she couldn't affect it or change it. It would just be more burder on her.
3. On that note, certain things used again and again annoy me.
Yeah that whole cliche, repetition thing shows lack of creativity and laziness on the part of the writer, and I think it reflects their writing capabilities :{
4. I don't like how submissive Buffy is in a lot of B/A fics.
AMEN! I think I've posted this thought somewhere before. I can't believe how many people take the boring old route of the woman always being on bottom, being tied up, being hit with a belt, being hit with a pattle, feeling the pain, etc. I mean, c'mon, Buffy is a SLAYER. She has dominance built into her, and it would have to be a give-and-take. On that same note, I love fics where she dominates him, and he lets down his guard/becomes vulnerable for her.
6. I don't like Angel saying, "I love you" more than once.
Yeah, when people put it in every paragraph it gets a little old. That's kind of an issue of show and not tell, though, which a lot of B/A writers seem to have a problem with.
7. I dislike the "soulmate" thing.
I HATE the soulmate thing. I do NOT want B/A to turn into some fantastical, contrived romance novel couple. That's just ... awful. Plus, I don't believe in 'soul mates'.
8. I dislike B/Aus, but that's another can o' worms.
I can love them, if they're done right. I don't like when Angelus goes soft, but I ALSO don't like when he abuses the living hell out of her. That's just totally OOC for Buffy...and evidence of a crappy story.
I think this might be the longest post I've ever made so be happy :)
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It's nice to find so many people saying this! I definitely think B/A post NFA would be a give-and-take; there would be no solid sub/dom lines. And I think Angel would love to get topped and dominated by her...possibly more than half the time.
That's kind of an issue of show and not tell,
Exactly. As several people have said before: B/A never needed to say it. They could just feel it, and you can see it watching them.
I don't believe in 'soul mates'.
Yeah, I don't really either. It's a personal thing, I think, and I understand that other people do believe in it and so would want to see it, but since I personally don't I usually get irked when I see it in fic.
I don't like when Angelus goes soft, but I ALSO don't like when he abuses the living hell out of her. That's just totally OOC for Buffy
My main problem is I can't see Buffy putting up with any kind of abuse whatsoever. And Angelus was into abuse, physical or mental--almost every single time he shows up, he's abusing someone in some way or other. Although it's generally not my cup of tea, I have an easier time swallowing soulless!Spike/Buffy than B/Aus. But! Again, that's just me.
I think this might be the longest post I've ever made so be happy :)
I AM happy! Usually your comments are short, and it's a treat to hear your opinions! Thank you!
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Yeah I totally decided that I don't contribute enough to other peoples' journals yet I expect to always have comments on mine and that's completely selfish, you know? So now I'm making time to offer my thoughts on other's...well, thoughts. And you always raise such thought-provoking topics that I promise to leave more in-depth comments and feedback from now on. I don't wanna be a stone-cold bitch or anything :)
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In short, don't comment out of an obligation. Just say what you feel like, and if you don't feel like saying anything, I don't think it's selfish. We all have different ways of communicating, you know?
But. I'm glad you think I raise thought-provoking topics ;o)
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Heh. I don't think they're stupid--I downright love 'em, even. But I do think they're cheesy, and yeah, totally overused in fic.
Except for that whole string of spit when the pull apart - that's just a tad gross.
I kinda like strings of spit. Means they were all into it. Except--have you seen the Winona Ryder "Little Women"? Now THERE was a gross spit stringy kiss.
I think him doing it alone is cheesy but them together? HOTNESS.
I like it when he does it alone on AtS--he's remembering doing it with her. *sniffle* But it's still cheesy. And even though it's completely fucking hot when they do it together? Still cheesy.
I just wish she would make up her freaking mind and bang him already!
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I don't know about chains so much as scarves.
LOLOL!
And I don't like the whole Buffy-lying-in-Spike's arms thing. That's awful. It either says she's using Spike or she's using Angel, or she's trying to have her cake and eat it too.
I don't think she's using either, but I think you're right about the cake, but I like that part. Buffy loves Angel, and will always love him, even if they can never be together. I can see them still kissing when they see each other after a long time even far in the future, when they have other loves in their lives. It would be . . . wrong, but I understand and sympathize with the emotion. Insofar as Spike, Buffy doesn't know what the hell she wants. She wants him with her but she's not prepared to give him what he wants from her, either. In "Touched" she seems to kind of admit that and Spike seems to kind of accept it. They come to a tenuous understanding, almost like a friendship--though not just a friendship, obviously. But there's an apocalypse tomorrow; he's going to wear an amulet that's potentially dangerous; they might all die--who wouldn't want to be in the arms of a man you think you might be falling in love with? Again, after kissing Angel, it might be ethically wrong but I certainly understand.
And the whole 'implied sex' thing is just freaking weird, considering he kinda tried to rape her. But anyway - that's a whole different thing.
Yeah, S7 was kinda wonky in the way it treated the B/S relationship, and I wish the AR or whatever it was had had more reverbs and more moments that dealt with it. That said, Buffy had forgiven Angel everything he had done as Angelus. I think if she couldn't also try to forgive Spike, some of her world view would be shattered.
and that will make me hold a grudge against Joss till the end of time
As I understand it, it wasn't completely Joss Whedon's fault. Then again, I'm a massive Whedon fangirl and tend to give him the benefit of the doubt.
'Waiting In The Wings'.
I didn't find this ep nearly as bad as I expected to, or as most people seem to. I liked seeing River, and I liked the Fred/Gunn/Wesley triangle stuff happening, and the A/Cordy stuff was hotter than A/Cordy ever was anywhere else, so when I try to swallow the idea that Angel and Cordy were in love, I think of that ep.