I really can't figure out what's bitchy about locking posts...unless you're doing something bitchy "behind" the screen of the flock. I mean, how can people get on you for maintaining your own sense of privacy or "speaking" to whom you choose?

The filtering flist viewing thing is...more confusing. Admittedly, I "should" probably defriend some people if I'm going to filter them most of the time but it feels so unnecessarily harsh especially if for some reason they want to read the more innocuous things that I flock. I don't know. Besides I do periodically check the whole list. *throws up hands*

I'll probably end up having to do some kind of friends-cut when I start school. *feels the angst*